Gray Divorce: Ending Your Marriage at an Older Age

Most married couples would likely agree that marriage takes work. Some generations ago, the amount of work put in, some might argue, seemed to be higher.

As of 1990 fewer than 1 in 10 people who got divorced were over the age of 50. But over the course of the last two and a half decades, the divorce rate for couples in the United States over the age of 50 has more than doubled. This still remains a lower rate, overall, than the divorce rate for those under 50.

To put it into perspective, as of 2010 one in every four couples in the United States going through a divorce were 50 or older. This is referred to as a Gray Divorce.

Many of these couples are part of the baby-boomer generation. What’s more, most of these marriages have lasted anywhere from two to five decades before they decided to divorce.

Happiness Expectancy

Gray divorce may raise the question as to whether individuals today are expecting to find a higher sense of happiness than their parents and grandparents. There seems to be a trend that couples today are less willing to remain in a loveless, unhappy marriage.

One of the biggest reasons cited for gray divorces is a long period of unhappiness. Couples may have chosen numerous reasons for staying together, but ultimately being unhappy as a couple made one or both of them decide to divorce.

There are several other reasons as to why gray divorce rates have increased so significantly over the last couple of decades. These include:

  • Disappearance of the strong stigma of divorce
  • A slight shift in the Catholic Church’s stance on divorce
  • Increased life expectancy
  • Economic gains of women who are now able to survive on their own
  • Prevalence of online dating

Differentiating Factors of Gray Divorce

While many may benefit from removing themselves from an unhealthy marriage, there are certain considerations to be taken for older individuals going through divorce, which their younger counterparts may not need to consider quite the same.

It is important to remember the following:

  • Alimony is almost always awarded after long-term marriages
  • Retirement money is generally cut in half
  • Because remarriages are more likely to end in divorce, having a pre-nuptial agreement for the next marriage is a good idea
  • The family home will likely become an asset to be valued and split; some spouses prefer to buy out the other spouse’s half instead of selling to a stranger

No matter what brought you to the decision to end your marriage, having sound legal advice is important. Choosing a knowledgeable West Chester divorce lawyer at the Law Office of Deborah M. Truscello can help to make this already difficult transition less distressing.

West Chester Divorce Lawyers at the Law Office of Deborah M. Truscello Help Those Who Are Dealing with a Gray Divorce

If you or a loved one is going through or looking to begin the divorce process, no matter your age, understanding the law and how to protect your best interests is imperative. Finding a knowledgeable and experienced family law lawyer can help you to receive the best outcome. The West Chester divorce lawyers at the Law Office of Deborah M. Truscello serve clients in Delaware County, Media, and West Chester, Pennsylvania from our office in Media, Pennsylvania. For a free consultation and to learn more, contact us online or call us at (610) 892-4940 today.

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Heather A
2023-03-01
I have known Deb for years now and it all started in 2009 when I got hurt and needed legal help with my workers comp. I randomly chose Deb because of the things I read on her website and I liked that she had a take charge attitude about just about everything. She out-lawyered someone and got me more in a settlement for that and then also worked with me on another case and won that one as well for me. If you get to know Deb and her personal story, you will get to know an amazing single mom who has had her own struggles and has come out so much stronger. She will fight for you if you do your part as a client and follow her guidance. I have now used two women lawyers in Media and three men and I actually found the two women far more effective and both won my cases that the men lost. Without Deb and my other lawyer winning the cases for me that they did - I could have found myself disabled for good with no money to pay for the life I live because I can’t work now. I credit my ability to be able to eat and have transportation and all. I couldn’t be more grateful for their hard work they did for me. Deb has won two of my cases and I would absolutely refer others to her for the same kinds of cases and I would use her again if I ever needed her help again!
Daveen Carpenter
2019-10-08
Deborah's team went above and beyond to get my case settled quickly. I am forever grateful
Rebecca Porter
2019-09-24
If you ever need a worker’s compensation attorney, I highly suggest using Deborah Truscello. I had a work accident injury and was referred to Deborah. She was with me every step of the way, with this long-drawn-out process. She was there any time I had questions or needed advice on my rehabilitation. Now my case is settled. I am very happy how things turned out and I owe it all to her. I can't thank her enough. I will use her again if I ever need too.
Jackson Jones
2019-09-01
Deborah is an excellent lawyer. She was professional, knowledgeable, and made me and my case feel important. She was always accessible and answered all of my questions. I would definitely recommend Debbie to anyone injured at work and in need of legal services.
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2019-05-18
I am a client of Deborah Truscello and also a woman of color. Deborah Truscello is not a bigot nor is she a racist. I hired Ms. Truscello back in 2016 for a very nasty custody case against a crazy man who has a history of dragging all his children through the court system. Ms. Truscello has been nothing but professional and well organized. She is very reliable and always available. I could contact her any time of the day or night and she is always responsive to my text messages, calls, and emails. If you are considering hiring her as your attorney I highly recommend you schedule a consultation and see for yourself you will not be disappointed.
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2018-08-17
Amazing law firm, they have helped me so much and enlightened me to the options I have, and to the right doctors who are still treating my issues... Very professional and very great people glad to have her in my team!!
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